Now days it seems that way to often people are dating/married to the wrong person.
Oh you know who I'm talking about we all know someone or a few someones. That are with someone they shouldn't be with.
The way I see it their are ALOT of RED FLAGS! That people simply look right past for whatever their reason maybe. I know I'm guilty as can be of being with the wrong person.
Here are just a few of the BIG warning signs that you need to find someone new and better!
1. The Unlovable!
The tell you in the way they treat you, the way they look at you and the tone in which they speak to you. Talking down to you as if they know you would never leave them. They ' know ' you couldn't do any better for what ever the reason. But they are wrong you are amazing, special and there are people out their who will adore you if given the chance.
2. They lie to you!
Even the smallest lie matters, it changes your relationship forever. It means they don't respect you or trust you. If they are lying to you about anything then they might as well be lying to you about everything.
3. They forget about you!
They seem to forget your alive if your not standing right there by there side. Even then you feel as if you aren't important enough to hold their full attention. They make plans with out you and inconvenience you when they do want to spend time with you. They act asif you should just take the time you get from them.
4. They abuse you!
They put their hands on you , pushing , smacking, punching. Throwing things at you when they are man. Hitting the wall , doors and all around acting a fool. The reason is so you fear them. If you fear them then they win. They have beaten you down to the point that they know you will never leave.
5. Trust Issues!
They are the kind of people who go through your phone. They stalk you when your not with them. They act asif you must stay with them at all times unless they give you the okay. To be around only those who they are okay with. Closing you off from your friends and family members.
6. Selfishness!
A real partner in life will always put your relationship and your needs above their own. For they truly love you snd your happiness means more to them then their own. A red flag is when they care only about their self. They do what is best for them no matter who gets hurt. They would sell the shirt off your back if it meant saving their own.
7. Laziness
If your struggling to pay your own bills and take care of your kids. While All Along your Boyfriend/GirlFriend. Sits at home putting everything on you while they do the bare minimum. Sitting at home not taking care of kids, not cleaning, not helping in any way or only doing a small amount that they should be doing. If your paying a baby sitter or daycare to take care of your kids while your working. Yet your " other half " is sitting on their butt not doing anything. Hello RED FLAG!!
Here is the solution!
Dump who ever it is right now! If you have said yes in your head to even one of the above 7.
Then its time you change your life
Right now! Today!
You deserve better you are
Beautiful
Smart
Funny
Amazing
Breathe taking
You can change the world!
There is someone out there right now
Looking for you!
Dreaming of you!
Waiting on you be in the place
And time where you will met each
Other.
So stop wasting you life and time
On someone who doesn't deserve you
Know your self worth
There is no reason good
Enough to stay in
A toxic relationship
Just look at
The
Red Flags
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