Showing posts with label Trying to get pregnant. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Trying to get pregnant. Show all posts

Monday, September 21, 2015

Pregnancy Symptoms I Have Been Having!



I know that there is always a lot of talk about pregnancy symptoms! 

I am just like every other woman trying to get pregnant and hopefully stay pregnant with my little one. ( at this point everything is looking great! )

So here is the list of mine thus far with this pregnancy!

1. Awful cramping, that turned out to be implantation cramping which I am now very blessed to have been through. ( 6 days past ovulation ) no bleeding!

2." School glue " Cervical mucus

3. My boobies hurt so bad and the real pain was from my nipples. so tender breast is a real thing I never had when I was younger. 

4. I became " that person " I checked my cervix and it was medium height, firm like the tip of my nose and closed. 

4. I had a slight fever of about 99'f, degrees that stayed there from the day I ovulated. ( I checked it at 6 pm every day. )

5. Hot flashes! OMG I am hot one second and cold the next. my poor kids are here dealing with my turning the heat and AC off and on. All through out the day. ( started about 6 dpo the day the egg made its home in my uterus. )

6. Slight on again and off again cramping for days

7. At about 9 days past ovulation and the day before I decided to test. I had backaches. in my lower back. 

8. Getting sick! I started getting sick about  9
dpo

and 

10. at LAST I tested at 10 days past ovulation. not because I thought I was pregnant. Sense we just had a miscarriage and we were not trying this month. I tested because my husband had jokes! 

He told me I was going through " pre mentopause " which made me so MAD that I tested and to my SHOCK! The test was positive!

looking back no I also know that had a few others as well. 

About 7 days past ovulation I kept feeling like I was peeing myself or maybe my period was starting. but it was only clear Cervical mucus. and that kept on until I was at the point I am right now. Just at 6 weeks pregnant. 

Nausea was something I felt off and on during the two week wait in the past when I was not pregnant so I never counted that as a clue. 

I was clearly VERY bloated but for me that was normal right before my period was going to start so again I just did not count that. 

I was so tired all of the time. However I am always so tired. 

At this point I wish I knew then what I know now and for our future babies I will be looking out for these signs. 

I hope this helps some of y'all out!

Baby Dust and  Healthy and Happy Pregnancy to Everyone! 




Thursday, July 23, 2015

The True Struggle .... Trying To Get Pregnant.


This issue is VERY dear to my heart as I am at this very moment
Trying to get pregnant with baby # 3. 

It has been so difficult for my husband and I to be able to have another baby. 

After 7 years of being on a Mirena  IUD.
It has been so hard. Harder then I ever thought it could be. 

To the point that we have lost a few babies at this point in our Journey. It has been filled with heartache, pregnancy test and waiting. Praying that we will see those beautiful pink lines. 


As of this very moment I am in the TWW ( Two Week Wait )
period and it is very . 

The TWW is the two week between the time you ovulate and the time you can can get a positive pregnancy test at home. 

Today we are  6 dpo ( days past ovulation ) and well I know that there are so many people who say that we can't take  a test until 14 days after ovulation. However lets get real! What female trying to get pregnant really waiting the full 14 days.

I know that people who are 6 days past ovulation has been blessed enough to get a positive on a Home pregnancy test.  ( not a Bright on but still its there ) 
 I am going to be taking a pregnancy test every morning for the next 4 days. 
I am praying that I am one of those luck few who get a very early positive in these four days. 

We have been full on trying for about 5 months. 
long months that seem to never end. The Cycles where we don't end up pregnant are the hardest on me. I know that is has to be hard on my husband as well however he doesn't show it.
To start with I honestly had no idea what I was doing. 
I have never had to try to get pregnant before and never thought I would be having this problem. 

Things that I didn't know could fill a book honestly. 




Pregnancy Terms To Know

TWW - Two Week Wait
TTC- Trying To Conceive 
DPO - Days Past Ovulation
BD - Baby Dance
BFN - Big Fat Negative
BFP - Big Fat Positive
HTP - Home Pregnancy Test
AF - Aunt Flow
LMP - Last Menstrual Period
EWCM - Egg White Cervical Mucus
CIO - Cry It Out 
BBT - Basal Body Temperature 
SAHM - Stay At Home Mom
POAS - Pee On A Stick
BMS- Baby Making Sex
CB - Cycle Day
CF - Cervical Fluid
CL - Corpus Luteum
CM - Cervical Mucus
CP- Cervical Position
CY - Cycle
DI - Donor Insemination
DP - Dancing Partner ( spouse or Significant other )
FTTA - Fertile Thought To All
FMU - First Morning Urine
HCG - Human Chorionic Gonadotropin ( Pregnancy Hormone )
IF - Infertility 
IUI - Intrauterine Insemination
IVF - In Vitro Fertilization
LH - Luteinizing Hormone
O - Ovulation
OPK - Ovulation Predictor Kit
PCOS (POS ) - Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome
S/A - Sperm Analysis
TCOYF - Taking Charge Of Your Fertility 



Saturday, July 18, 2015

The Struggle .... infertility after Mirena


Are you struggling with getting pregnant?
You are not alone!



It has been over a year sense I had my Mirena removed. 

I have tried to get pregnant and stay pregnant for a while now. It has been a true struggle. 

There are some things that you can do in order to help up your chances of getting pregnant. 

( I am NOT a doctor just a woman trying to get pregnant like everyone else. )

I have been researching different things here is what I have found and some things that I have tried


This month I am trying!

Yucca Root ( also known as Cavassa Root or Maca Root )

I just started this pill this cycle. I at this point can not say 100% if it is working. However I can say that I am showing more signs in ovulation this time around. 

I am having cramping, headaches, I am very tired. 
I have been charting my ovulation using the Ovia Ovulation & Period Tracker  I honestly can not say enough about this app. I love it! 

It is the best app I have found that gives you advice, tells you everything you are going through and has been 100% right so far. It tells you when to try, when to take a pregnancy test and everything your body is going through. What my body is going through has never made more sense to me ever. 
I have always been pretty lost when it come to this stuff. I didn't grow up with the kind of mother who talked to me about well anything. So I never knew a lot of this information. 

It has been a God send and I have high hopes for getting pregnant and staying pregnant this cycle. 

What Supplements do you and your partner takes while TTC.

Supplements
 There is now a great deal of scientific knowledge about the use of nutritional supplements and their beneficial effects on both male and female fertility. As you will see, these supplements can be very effective in re-balancing your hormones, as well as improving you and your partner’s overall health, which are so vital for successful conception.
Scientific research has shown that certain vitamins and minerals can increase your chances of getting and staying pregnant. In order to maximise your chances of conceiving it is very important that you and your partner are in optimum health. By eliminating nutritional deficiencies and improving sperm production and mobility you can dramatically increase your chances of getting pregnant. In order to do this it is essential that you are obtaining the right nutrients and in the right quantities to enhance your success.
Supplements are necessary because even the best diet in the world mayl not contain all the nutrients you need to give you the best chance of conceiving.
Folic Acid
It is now known that folic acid can prevent spina bifida in your baby, and it is essential that you get plenty both before and during pregnancy. And that’s not all: folic acid is undoubtedly important, but it is just part of the very important B-complex family of vitamins that are necessary to produce the genetic materials DNA and RNA, not only of the egg but also the sperm. Together with vitamin B12, folic acid works to ensure that your baby’s genetic codes are intact. Remember: it’s not enough to take folic acid alone when you are trying to become pregnant. All of the B vitamins are essential during the pre-conceptual period. Research has shown that giving B6 to women who have trouble conceiving increases fertility and vitamin B12 has been found to improve low sperm counts.
Zinc
Zinc is the most widely studied nutrient in terms of fertility for both men and women. It is an essential component of genetic material and a zinc deficiency can cause chromosome changes in either you or our partner, leading to reduced fertility and an increased risk of miscarriage. Zinc is necessary for your body to ‘attract and hold’ (utilise efficiently) the reproductive hormones, oestrogen and progesterone.
And it’s equally important for your partner: zinc is found in high concentrations in the sperm. Zinc is needed to make the outer layer and tail of the sperm and is, therefore, essential for the health of your partner’s sperm and, subsequently, your baby. Interestingly, several studies have also shown that reducing zinc in a man’s diet will also reduce his sperm count.
Selenium
Selenium is an antioxidant that helps to protect your body from highly reactive chemical fragments called free radicals. For this reason, selenium can prevent chromosome breakage, which is known to be a cause of birth defects and miscarriages. Good levels of selenium are also essential to maximise sperm formation. Blood selenium levels have been found to be lower in men with low sperm counts.
Omega 3 Fatty Acids
These essential fats have a profound effect on every system of the body, including the reproductive system and they are crucial for healthy hormone functioning. Omega 3 fatty acids also control inflammation which may interfere with getting and staying pregnant. For men essential fatty acid supplementation is crucial because the semen is rich in prostaglandins which are produced from these fats. Men with poor sperm quality, abnormal sperm, poor motility or low count, have inadequate levels of these beneficial prostaglandins.
Many of the women I see in the clinic have been taking evening primrose oil supplements – an Omega 6 fatty acid – for years and have not been eating enough Omega 3 oils, or taking them in supplement form, to counterbalance this. Some women are also taking combinations such as Omega 3, 6, and 9 in supplement form because they have heard that we need a good balance of all the Omega fatty acids. This is true, but you have to take into account what your own levels may be in the first place. It is no good adding in more Omega 6 if you have already got enough or in fact too much in your body. (You can now have a blood test to tell you if you have the correct levels of Omega 3 to Omega 6 in your body see below). To check whether you have sufficient levels of Omega 3 please click Omega 3 Deficiency Test (at home finger prick blood)
Vitamin E
Vitamin E is another powerful antioxidant and has been shown to increase fertility when given to both men and women. Men going for IVF treatment with their partners have been given vitamin E, and fertilisation rates have, as a result, increased from 19 to 29 percent. It has been suggested that the antioxidant activity of vitamin E might make the sperm more fertile.
Vitamin C
Vitamin C is also an antioxidant, and studies show that vitamin C enhances sperm quality, protecting sperm and the DNA within it from damage. Some research has indicated that certain types of DNA damage in the sperm can make it difficult to conceive in the first place, or it can cause an increased risk of miscarriage if conception does take place. If DNA is damaged, there may be a chromosomal problem in the baby, should the pregnancy proceed. Whether or not DNA damage does have these effects has not been conclusively proven, but it’s worth taking vitamin C and the other antioxidants as a precautionary measure.

Vitamin C also appears to keep the sperm from clumping together, making them more motile.
One study has shown that women taking the drug clomiphene to stimulate ovulation will have a better chance of ovulating if vitamin C is taken alongside the drug. Clomiphene does not always work in every woman, but the chances are often increased when vitamin C is supplemented.
Beta-Carotene
This is the vegetable precursor to Vitamin A and is completely safe during pregnancy. Beta-carotene is a powerful antioxidant which helps to protect egg and sperm DNA from damage by harmful free radicals which can affect the quality of both the egg and sperm. Free radicals are highly unstable and set off a process called oxidation which can have harmful effects on the every cell in the body. Beta- carotene will be contained in your multivitamin and mineral.
L-Arginine
 This is an amino acid found in many foods and the head of the sperm contains an exceptional amount of this nutrient, which is essential for sperm production. Supplementing with L-arginine can help to increase both the sperm count and quality.
Note: People who have herpes attacks (either cold sores or genital herpes) should not supplement with L-arginine because it stimulates the virus.
L-Carnitine
This amino acid is essential for normal functioning of sperm cells. According to research, it appears that the higher the levels of L-Carnitine in the sperm cells, the better the sperm count and motility.
Furthermore, by adopting a healthier lifestyle you will be more likely to prevent fertility problems which is discussed in detail in the rest of this ebook which you can read by clicking on Understanding Fertility ebook at The Natural Health Practice
Herbs
 Herbal treatment is aimed at restoring hormone imbalances, and encouraging ovulation if it is not occurring. It will also give you the best possible chance of maintaining a pregnancy.
Agnus Castus (Vitex Agnus Castus)
 This is the herb of choice for helping to restore hormone imbalance and increasing fertility. In one study 48 women diagnosed with infertility took agnus castus daily for three months, 7 of them became pregnant during that time and 25 of them regained normal progesterone levels.
Agnus castus is particularly helpful for those women who have a luteal phase defect (shortened second half of the cycle) or those with high prolactin levels, because it stimulates the proper functioning of the pituitary gland which controls the hormones.
Agnus castus works to restore hormonal balance and can be used where there are hormone deficits as well as excesses it:
  • Regulates periods
  • Restarts periods which have stopped
  • Helps with heavy bleeding
  • Increases the ratio of progesterone to oestrogen by balancing excess oestrogen.
Evening Primrose Oil
Increase Cervical Mucous
EPO has been used by herbalists for hundreds of years to increase cervical mucous.  Cervical fluid is necessary for allowing the sperm to swim freely through the cervix. Some of us have low or no cervical fluid, so it is harder for the sperm to move and there may not be a friendly environment for the sperm to sustain themselves.
The suggested usage for increasing cervical mucous using EPO is initially 500mg, three times a day for a total of 1500mg per day. If you don’t get results in your first cycle, you may want to increase your usage to 3,000 mg a day in your next cycle.  If you are actively trying to conceive do not use EPO after ovulation because this herb has an action on the uterus.  You can learn more about this below.

Fertility Blend How it Works
    The amino acid, L-carnitine, has been shown to be critical to the formation of healthy sperm.
  • Vitamins C and E, green tea and selenium are all potent antioxidants that help improve sperm counts and quality.
  • The antioxidant ferulic acid is found in Dong Quai, has also been shown to improve sperm quality.
  • Ingredients zinc and B vitamins (B6, B12 and folate) are critical nutrients in male reproductive systems for several benefits, including hormone metabolism, sperm formation and motility.

FertilAid for Women features a patented[1], proprietary formula that integrates complete preconception vitamin and mineral support with herbal ingredients like chasteberry (vitex) and red clover blossom - designed to help restore female hormonal balance, promote regular ovulation, and support overall reproductive wellnessDoctor-designed FertilAid for Women has helped tens of thousands of women to conceive.
FertilAid for Men offers an effective, patented[2] formula that includes L-Carnitine and a comprehensive array of potent antioxidants to help optimize male fertility safely and naturally. Clinically validated and formulated on the basis of established scientific research, FertilAid for Men promotes healthy sperm development, and helps improve sperm count, motility, and morphology. Recommended by leading fertility specialists, FertilAid for Men has helped tens of thousands of men improve their sperm parameters.