Thursday, June 25, 2015

The Sisterhood .... where has it gone?

When I first got married I was so excited to be part of the Military life style. 

The sisterhood or the thought of the sisterhood was everything a girl could want. 


or so I thought ....


In all of the books they tell about how the Military wives are a sisterhood. That they stick be each other and are there for each other through the good and the bad. 


Yeah I know that is a fairyland where everyone is happy and there is not back stabbing.


Here are the facts for you!




   Good News Ladies!                                      

       Wives Clubs                                                                        
         FRG's                                                                                   
                                                                                             
   Bad News Ladies!                   

No one cares about the wives clubs
Few females are brave enough to join 
the wives clubs or the FRG's. They all 
seem to have died out. The " I don't want
anything to do with the wives clubs or 
FRG because " I'm not a lazy housewife"
I have a life and a career or just don't care
about being part of a wives group. I don't 
need them. They are nothing but drama.






     The Solution To The Problem! 

Get off of your butt and join your local spouse club, join the FRG and put your self out there!
We all know we need friends and people who really understand. 
The sisterhood can only survive if each and everyone of us put the effort into being part of it.

These clubs and the FRG are there to support all the wives and families, to bring us together and to make sure we all know the information that we need to know. 
                                                                                    
                                        Is there drama? YES! there is drama in life all together so put aside your opinion and stop thinking every FRG and wives club is the same. 
If the FRG or wives club isnt what you think it should be then get your butt off your sofa and change it! You can change it and make it a better group and help show other wives new and old what the sisterhood should be like! 

There a woman out there that wants to be alone, we all need a family and sometimes we are born with one. Sometimes we are pulled into one, or marry into one. Then sometimes you find you find one that cares about you more then you know .... you just have to find them. 

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